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Travel Intention

Travel Intention

The Instagram snapshot above – written in crayon –  contains my intentions for the week I spent recently at The Montage in Laguna Beach.  Who needs to set intentions for a luxurious vacation?  Well, I do! I actually think you should set an intention every morning before your feet hit the floor and you drag your lazy bones out of bed!  But when you are investing in a luxurious vacation, it is imperative to keep your intentions in the forefront of your mind.  Why let the stress and worries you left behind infiltrate your time away?  Especially when you are camped out on the cliff over looking the Pacific Ocean at The Montage.

A View to a Chill

A View to a Chill

This magnificent view never gets old. The Montage is one of my family’s favorite get aways and this stunning view from the lobby terrace is one of the reasons why.  That pool is the prime place to Be Happy.  Be Relaxed.  Be Grateful! See the photo below for proof!

Jet Lagged Traveling Du0

Jet Lagged Traveling Duo

Even when you arrive 6 hours before check in time, you can check out at the pool and slip into vacation mode immediately!  When you are perched over the Pacific, it is really easy to start to unwind and slip into vacation mode.

Majestic Montage

Majestic Montage

One of the reasons my family loves this place is that it has something for all of us, especially Corbin.  He LOVES The Paintbox, which is the kids program at the hotel.  The staff is top notch and most often Corbin doesn’t want to leave when it is time to go. They even send him birthday cards every July. No trip here is complete without the obligatory face painting session. Or the trip across the street to CVS to get some make-up remover to get all of this off of his sweet little face! I don’t recommend doing this the day before your family photo shoot on the beach, though.  All of that black face paint can be a real pain to get off of an 8-year-old boy.

Facepaint Creature from the Paintbox Girls

Facepaint Creature from the Paintbox Girls

This year, we made the trek down to LegoLand.  I have to confess, I am not an amusement park fan AT ALL.  But, as parents we do things with our kids that often times we’d rather not be doing, right?  Legoland did not disappoint.  The weather was perfect. There was not a huge crowd. We all really enjoyed the day and the fun photo ops!

He's So ... Stiff

He’s So … Stiff

I Will Not Look at you or smile...no way.

I will not look at you or smile…no way.

As I mentioned, I dislike hate amusement parks.  But I adore LOVE my child.  And look at his face in the photo below…that’s a look of shear excitement on his face.  And one of complete terror on mine!

Last photo of the day at Legoland

Last photo of the day at Legoland

There really is no huge reason to leave The Montage but we wanted to shake things up a bit since we were there for seven days.  The SoCal food scene is always intriguing.  The Watermarc was recommended and we found ourselves there TWICE on this trip.  One of my favorite dishes was the watermelon, tuna and tomato skewers. As a southerner, if an entree offers up tomatos and watermelon in the same dish, I’m going to order it.  The tuna and touch of seaweed salad really amped up the flavors.

Tomato Watermelon Tuna skewers..second order!

Tomato Watermelon Tuna skewers..second order!

But I have to tell you, when I found out about the home made Ding Dongs on the dessert menu, I had to order them. As a child, my grandmother always kept a box of Ding Dongs in her “treat” drawer.  Some foods make my soul happy. These chocolate dipped cakes do it for me.  And bring them to me in a Rolling Stones lunch box and I’m a really a happy camper.  Momma’s gettin’ some satisfaction!

The Lunch Box

The Lunch Box

With all of the time I have spent at The Montage, I have yet to find a bad view. Even the view from the gym is spectacular. I snapped this from the treadmill following my evening of Ding Dongs! Afterwards, I checked into the spa which I highly recommend. They offer a wide selection of amazing services and have a great boutique that is well edited with skin care products from Eminence and super stylish clothing from R and R Surplus. Speaking of shopping, if you can drag yourself away from the fabulous boutique in the spa and gift shop, I recommend two other places in Laguna Beach for some retail therapy.  First stop is 11th Moon for a well curated selection of clothing and accessories from Peter Pillota, Raquel Allegra and Rachel Comey.  Second stop is Tuvalu.  I picked up some great treasures for my apartment in this shop on Forest Avenue.  My basket of shiny sea shells and my huge chunk of coral make for great conversations and are reminders of one of my favorite vacations spots.

Workout View over the Adult Only Pool

Workout View over the Adult Only Pool

My absolute favorite thing about The Montage is just relaxing by the pool.  It takes a bit of time to unwind from the frantic pace of living in New York City.  But once I’ve turned down the dial and quieted the committee of monkeys in my head, there is no better place to chill than in a lounge chair here with the breeze coming off the ocean.  I can read a highly recommended thriller tabloid magazine, people watch celebrity watch, sleep off a hangover nap and play with my filters on Instagram!

I see you end of summer....I know!

I see you end of summer….I know!

Our poolside lounging includes some fantastic food and beverages from The Mosaic Grill. I’m typically a Veuve Clicquot champagne lady but opted for something new.  I found myself craving something green and this is what was suggested.  The Cucumber Crusher.

Cucumber Cooler Crusher

Cucumber Crush

Wanna make one for yourself?  You will need the following on the rocks:

Grey Goose La Poire Vodka

Muddled Cucumber

Agave Nectar

Fresh Lime Juice

Splash of Soda

Priceless in every way

Priceless in every way

After a full week in my version of paradise, Corbin came back from dinner with this heart stopping note and sparkly ring from the gift shop.  This child slays me.  He knows his Momma well.  And we can all use an evil eye to keep bad things away from us. I wish I could just bottle him up sometimes and keep him 8 forever.

Leaves me speechless

Leaves me speechless

I leave you with this stunning sunset photo.  There is my joie de vivre, y’all. Words really can’t do any more for it.

Thanks for Kim-Marie at www.luxurytravelmom.com for sharing the word about Instagram Travel Thursday.

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Cruising around Europe on The World

Imagine seeing the world from a ship and docking in different ports of call around the globe.  Can you see yourself popping off the ship in ever chic Monaco? Or even packing up your scuba gear and heading out for a day of diving along the Great Barrier reef in Australia?  I think that would be an awesome way to live and see the world.  It’s hard to comprehend how that would actually work in my present day life.  My 8-year-old would be the victim of home (ship) schooling and my husband would most likely wanna throw himself overboard after a months of not physically being in his office!  But, one day I would love to do that.

How do I know this about myself you might be wondering?  We spent seven days on The World along the coast of Portugal and Spain recently. The World is a luxurious residential cruise ship that travels the entire world over a two year time span.  Think of it as a mega high end floating neighborhood.  The “guests” on board are actually residents who own the apartments.  For many, this home is most like not their one and only.  There are residents from places like Texas and the Congo or Britain and Utah.  Some, like myself, are Exclusive Resort’s members who enjoy a trip on board when we can get a highly sought after place during the leg of a journey that we want to be a part of!

We boarded The World in Lisbon, Portugal.  I’ve traveled to many destinations in Europe but this was my first visit to Lisbon!

The World docked in Lisbon

The World docked in Lisbon

The World was docked near the Ponte de 25 Abril suspension bridge.  And yes, it looks very similar to San Francisco’s Golden Gate Bridge.  FYI -The Ponte de 25 Abril bridge is the longest of its type in Europe.

Ponte de 25 Abril bridge

Ponte de 25 Abril bridge

Our time was short in Lisbon so I do what I like to do best, first!  We found some food and beverages!

Sangria, anyone?

Sangria, anyone?

Maybe it was the jet lag and over load of sangria, but I was not overly impressed with Lisbon.  The one thing that stood out in my mind were the beautiful tiled buildings. They are stunning. As are the hand painted tile murals that can be found all over this city.

Blue tile Blue sky

Blue tile Blue sky

We set sail late one night and I knew immediatley that we were heading into some rough water.  Needless to say, I was ill and horizontal for over 24 hours.  The only thing worse than sea sickness is morning sickness! When the seas calmed down and we cruised closer to Ferol, Spain, I drug myself up onto the top deck of The World and took in this amazing sunset from the Bali beds.

Sunnies at sunset on The World

Sunnies at sunset on The World

Profoundly hung over from being sea sick, I finally got off The World in Ferol, Spain on Sunday afternoon. Just in time for the weekly market and octopus boil.  The market sounded fantastic.  The octopus?  Not so much.  I was still on a diet of crackers and water!  But I’m journalist who loves a photo op and couldn’t let this pass me by.  Although the thought of the moment when I actually took this photo still makes my stomach flip!

Yummy....not so much!

Yummy….not so much!

If you travel enough, there will come a time when you get sick.  Really sick. And can’t take in all that there is to do where ever you are.  This happened to me in Ferol.  I wish I had an amazing bit of advice to offer to you about Ferol, but I do not.  I can tell you this though.  Everything in Ferol on Sunday is closed with the exception of a few restaurants.

Ferol, Spain from The World

Ferol, Spain from The World

I was more than ready to head to Bordeax.  The captain navigated The World down the Garonne River to Bordeaux.

You are here...blue dot!

You are here…blue dot!

With a ship full of oenophiles, there were lots of people on deck sipping wine checking out the vineyards as we made our way down the river.  We learned all about the regional wines from the chateaus that were lined up along the river.

Chateaus along the Garonne River

Chateaus along the Garonne River

The World garnered a rather large group of on-lookers as we docked along the river in the heart of Bordeaux.

Docking in Bordeaux

Docking in Bordeaux

With my land legs back under me and an appetite for some real food, we set out for dinner.  The World’s concierge Pierre highly recommended Le Garbrielle which was a short walk away from our new floating home. Dinner was well, you can see for yourself…

First and last time with sea urchin

First and last time with sea urchin

When you have to rely on your waiter to translate the menu for you, sometimes you end up with things like fancy pants sea urchin for dinner.  I speak a little Spanish and but no French other than joie de vivre, y’all!  I could only eat one of them, much less all three.  When the waiter returned to the table, he asked me if this was my first time eating sea urchin.  I told him it was my first time eating this version of the fishy dish. And he says in his smug, French accent, “and I’lll assume your last time?” “Indeed, sir,” I replied. “But I’ll take another glass of that Chateau Brown white wine!”

The wine and dessert were the winner of the evening.  Shocker, right?  I even had some of the Chateau Brown shipped back home.

The best part of the meal

The best part of the meal

Bordeaux was such a beautiful city.  We had a great time just walking around the city. We didn’t have a huge agenda which is not normally the way I ltravel.  I did have one small agenda.  I came across a list of sought after European beauty products and picked up a few along the way.  I typically scout out all of the best places to shop and dine. But for many reasons on this trip, I just decided to wing it.  I found some great food wine. I also found some great shops shoes!

Sights from Bordeaux

Sights from Bordeaux

The most impressive part of this European adventure was our apartment on The World.

The best way to see The World

The best way to see The World

Here is small peak into what it looked like.  We had a lot of space in the two bedrooms and the living and dining rooms.  This is not your typical “cruise ship” experience.  The only similarities between a cruise ship and The World is that they both float and carry a lot of people.  That is really where it ends! I’ll have more about the details on The World in another post.

A look inside The World

A look inside The World

And I leave you with a few of my favorite Instagram photos and selfie’s of me and my traveling partner in crime!

Selfie with my traveling partner

Selfie with my traveling partner

Bubbles and giggles in Bordeaux

Bubbles and giggles in Bordeaux

Traveling has been a huge part of my life for the last 10 years.  But there is truly no. place. like. home!  Or even JFK International.  Instagram’s filters a.k.a. ‘smoke and mirrors’ makes everyone look photo ready after the longest of trans Atlantic flights!

Kiss the ground....okay maybe not!

Kiss the ground….okay maybe not!

Travel.  It is part of my joie de vivre, y’all.

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That’s What They Said

airplaneviewsmallI left home in New York City a month and a half ago.  I did not set out in July with the intention to be gone for 45 days, but that is how it transpired for a host of reasons. Looking back on my travels and fun times shared over dinner, drinks and road trips with some of my closest friends, five quotes and comments come to mind that have stayed with me. They’ve provided the reason for my gigantic smile and led to some random outbursts of laughter when they cross my mind. The others have stuck around like a warm, snuggly security blanket.  The short list is below. And in an effort to keep my friends near and dear, I will not be attributing any of the quotes to any of them by name!  I’m a vault like that when it comes to my friends!

“Move forward with grace and ease.”

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“When the horse dies, get off.”

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“I should drink more.”

Cucumber Crush Cocktail

“Go where the universe takes you, DJ.”

DJ on Crested Butte

“Dad, does she have super powers?” “Yes, son.  It’s called her vagina.”

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My friends are an essential part of my joie de vivre, y’all! I can’t imagine my life without each and every one of them.

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Stickin’ it to ’em in Vegas, Baby!

skullsmallI’ve spent this week in Las Vegas.  I have to tell you this is one of my least favorite places in North America.  I’m not a gambler.  I can’t count fast enough to make sense of card games or dice! If I’m going to give you some money, I want a guaranteed return of something tangible.  Like a pair of fabulous shoes,a magical massage, delicious sushi or a piece of bling-ed out jewelry. Even with all of it’s beautiful hotels and great shows, I’m just not a huge fan.  This week marks my 10th trip to Sin City, so as far as I’m concerned, I don’t need to come back…EVER!

So, what brings me to my least favorite place in North America? Butch and Harold.

Butch and Harold logo

No, they aren’t too old men that I decided to track down in Las Vegas.  Butch and Harold is the amazingly creative company that my Canadian, sister, friends Ariane and Michelle Gold started in 2007. We are working the Las Vegas Market this week

The sisters took the concept of the vinyl wall decals they had in their boys bedrooms and created reusable and removable wall frames.  When I first saw the frames, I wished I would have had some when I was growing up.  Back in the day, I had countless stickers all over my mirror in my bedroom.  As we all know, when you go to peel those stickers off, they never come off in one piece.  They leave behind evidence of their existence and a sticky mess that takes forever to get off, if you can even get it to come off.

The frames are perfect for kids rooms, college dorms and apartments. They are great on the refrigerators to frame up Corbin’s artwork, too.  The adhesive vinyl sticks to anything and won’t peel the paint off the wall when you removed them.  AND you don’t have to commit to a nail in the wall.  Have you ever hung a frame only to find that it isn’t in exactly the right place?  Me too!  Then you have a nail hole to plug and you have to start over.  With the Butch and Harold frames, you can slap up a photo anytime, anywhere and take it down the next moment and not worry with damaging a wall or surface.

You can find Butch and Harold at Bed Bath and Beyond and on-line at www.butchandharold.com  They make great gifts, too and are really affordable!

She’s Got a Story to Tell

My story telling class at The Peoples Improv Theater or The Pit is in the books. My friend, Dana, recommended I take the class and after looking into it, I knew she was on to something.  As a television journalist, I’ve been telling stories for a long time.  However, as a journalist, I was reporting facts professionally with as little bias as possible.  This, however, is just me telling you a story from my point of view and experience.  It really sums up what this blog is about.  Me giving you a look into my world through my lens –  however off the wall it may be!  And God knows some of it will seem off the wall at times.

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After spending the last 8 weeks downtown on Monday nights, I recently performed my story in front of a live audience at The Pit on East 24th Street here in Manhattan.  I was first up and took to the stage just as my nerves began to settle down! Check out the You Tube video below.

My instructors David Crabb and Michele Wallson were absolutely amazing.  With their guidance and critiques during the classroom sessions, I quickly learned the basics of telling a story!  Yes, there is a method to the madness.

I’m hooked.

I’ve got a boat load of material.

And I can’t wait to get back on a stage to tell another story!

Friends and family, consider yourself warned.

Saturday at PS 1 – Was It A Rave?

heroesA friend recommended we check out the Saturday Warm Up series at MOMA PS1 in Long Island City.  It came highly recommended and after checking it out on-line, I decided it would be a fun thing for the three of us to try out on a Saturday.

I snagged the tickets on-line and we took the 7 train over to the museum.  I knew immediately that something was off when we walked up to the museum.  First of all, there were no kids in sight.  Well, not “no kids” but just three that I saw as we stood in the line that snaked around the museum.  As we inched closer, Mark took a peek inside the courtyard where the event was taking place.  When he turned around and looked at me, I knew something was up.  With a laugh, he said, “I think this is a rave”!

No way, my friend would never suggest I take Corbin to something that wasn’t age appropriate.  We made our way in, passed the security check point where we were “tagged and stamped” and proceeded into the courtyard.

It wasn’t so bad actually.  The music was great!  But within in a few minutes, it hit me.  The smell of marijuana.  Uh oh, maybe we were at a rave?  A more high brow, artsy, well curated rave.  Oh shit!  We made it into the museum with enough time to scope things out before the galleries closed.  I had to rush Corbin though an exhibit with dead animals hanging from a tree and into the room where Ansel Adams was on display.  Hurray for American photography!

See the exit all the way down there?

See the exit all the way down there?

As a parent, I’ve gone to insane lengths to keep Corbin away from inappropriate video games, tv shows, people, relatives, food, situations, etc. And yet, here we were, smack dab in the middle of a full on dance party with alcohol and the occasional joint being passed around!  “No son, you can’t eat at McDonald’s, but I’ll take you to a beer and pot infested dance party!”  Yes, you should be laughing out loud now because I am STILL laughing even as I type this!!! Corbin was intrigued with the art and loved the music.  He was not thrilled the the size of the crowd!  Or the smelly homeless man on the subway ride back to Manhattan. “Mom, I think that man pooped in his pants.  He smells awful”, Corbin said.  I think that is exactly what the situation was with the homeless man.

Check out the photos that I managed to snap in between keeping a death grip on Corbin and trying to make my way out of the sea of cool, young, hip, slightly inebriated, urban people.

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Carter Harrison knows fried catfish

By DJ Duckworth

Correspondent

Some of the most amazing food can be found on the small, yet jam packed island of Manhattan. If you can think of it, it is here. Whether it is authentic Thai, Mexican, Indian or Turkish dishes, you will find it in New York City. And to make it even better, you can have just about any of it delivered. The only exception, I have found is the lack of really good southern cuisine. More specifically, fried catfish. Sure, you can find it in New York City, but it doesn’t quite measure up to the tasty versions that are served up across the southern United States.

However, one man is making catfish served southern style available to the masses across the country. Carter Harrison, the man behind King Kat Inc. of Hickory Plains, has been either raising, processing or catering catfish since the 1970s. Harrison was recently in Washington, D.C. cooking for the Catfish Farmers of America when I caught up with him to talk about his career and the current state of the catfish industry.

Before the crowd of Southern senators and congressman arrived at the reception, Harrison talked with me about his business. He got his start with catfish in the late 1960s working alongside his late father-in-law Raymond Schroeder in Carlisle. The two would often spend 18 hour work days along side each other. Harrison, who grew up in Des Arc, says he had no clue what he wanted to be when he grew up. “How many young people know what they wanna do? I grew up in the country and just knew I liked being outside,“ Harrison said.

Outside is where Harrison was when we spoke as he prepped for the reception not far from the steps of the nation’s Capitol. The hot topic of the evening was the inspection process of catfish with the focus being on imports. Harrison says the imported catfish from China and Vietnam is cheaper but not being held up to the same standards as the U.S. raised catfish. “They are bringing it in at a lower cost, not by the guidelines that they need to be, competing with our product that is cultured and produced under good situations under U.S. guidelines.” Currently, imported catfish has 75 percent of the filet market.

The United States Department of Agriculture currently inspects catfish, but the government, sighting duplicity issues, wants to move the inspections to the Food and Drug Administration’s supervision. According to Ben Pentecost, president of the Catfish Farmers of America, 91 percent of the fish in the U.S. is imported. The FDA currently inspects only two percent of the imports and conducts chemical testing on one tenth of one percent of imported fish. The House Agriculture committee has already voted to move the inspections from under the USDA to the FDA. A similar bill is pending in the Senate.

Joey Lowery, from Newport, farms 400 acres of catfish.

“We can compete with anybody but we have to have the right atmosphere to do that in,“ Lowery said. The catfish inspections are detailed in the 2008 farm bill that has yet to be implemented. Congressman Rick Crawford, serves on the agriculture sub committee that voted to move the inspections to the FDA. “It’s a food safety issue, it’s a quality issue and it’s not a trade retaliation issue,” Crawford says. “If the FDA is going to be in charge of inspecting it, we are going to make sure they inspect it properly and to the right standard.”

U.S. seafood importers with the aid of the National Fisheries Institute have spent over a million dollars to keep the inspections under the FDA’s authority.

After marrying his wife, Debbye, Carter Harrison went into full-time catfish production, even building catfish ponds and processing catfish. In 1985, he streamlined the business focusing primarily on catering. Harrison now has three full-time workers and his family often helps out, even though he says King Kat isn’t a traditional family business. His children seem to disagree.

“No one can merely ‘observe’ when at the farm,” says Harrison’s daughter Shana. She was at the farm before her father left for the Washington, D.C., trip. “Before the day was out, I was sent off to buy dry ice for the trip. At one point, I also saw Chris and Bryce out in the kitchen doing something to get it ready. It seems that the concept of ‘family business’ continues to grow with us, despite our age or how far away from Prairie County we roam.”

Harrison’s mobile operation runs like a well-oiled machine. He does some prep work before leaving Hickory Plains and adds the finishing touches once he arrives on site. The food is packed in ice chests on dry ice. The Mississippi-raised catfish is later dressed and fried in his mobile kitchen. Like the veil of secrecy surrounding the ingredients of Kentucky Fried Chicken’s recipe, Harrison prefers to keep his breading recipe under wraps. But he does make a concession when I ask him if he will divulge it to me, “only if you wanna buy it!” he says.

If you can think of an event where you need a meal, King Kat has catered it — from RiverFest, to funerals, to luncheons in Washington, D.C., to fundraisers at local schools. As one publications once wrote, King Kat has served catfish from the outhouse to the White House.

With a career spanning over 40 years, Harrison talks about his favorite part of the job. “Pleasing people,” he says this with a pause as tears come to his eyes. “I’ve enjoyed working with a lot of young people along the way, too.”

When asked what he would be doing if he weren’t the king of catfish catering, he says with a laugh, “I wouldn’t be fishing! I’d be seeing the county. I’d still eat catfish though, maybe driving a bus and touring people in later years but that won’t happen. I’m gonna cook to long to do that.”

In the fast paced world of social media, you won’t find King Kat on Facebook and you will not be able to keep up with their travels on Twitter. You can’t even get the scoop on King Kat off of his website – there isn’t one. Harrison says, “we have a phone number” and that has kept him busy and in business since 1980.

DJ Duckworth is a television journalist currently living in New York City. The Carlisle native is a contributing writer for New York Family magazine. You can read more about her adventures atwww.iamdjduckworth.com